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Autumn Leaves :: A Reminder to Never take Life for Granted

0 · Oct 24, 2016 ·

There’s a house near town that has the most amazing grape vine draping over its fence.  And every single time I drive by, I get the sudden urge to pull over and take a picture.  The foliage slowly turned from lush green to shades of golden corn, honey Dijon and chartreuse.  Little specks of brown have formed delicate patterns on each leaf and the entire plant is singing with perfection.

Yesterday I drove by the adorned fence once more, but I was instantly saddened by the realization that the lushness has dissipated.  It was no long full and vibrant but rather preparing itself for the long winter months ahead.  Only a few speckled leaves clung to their woody stems, the rest littered the ground beneath.   I had missed my chance to stop and take a picture and now I would have to wait another year entirely for this phenomena to take place again.

Fall is fading away all too quickly.

I know this isn’t a new message, but it’s once that’s constantly on my heart.  Beauty if fleeting.  Life as we know it right now in this exact moment will never be exactly like this again.  A couple weeks ago our pastor stood up on stage and shared how silly he thinks it is to buy someone flowers – even his wife – they’re just going to die.  But as morbid as it is to think about, his wife is going to die someday too.  That doesn’t mean that he shouldn’t love her while she’s here.  It just means that we should treasure every moment of their life without reserve.  In the same way, we should treasure every leaf, every blossom and each delicate stem while it is able to grace us with its presence.  Winter is going to be here all too soon and while there will certainly be days of glittering snowflakes and blankets of white, there will also be gloomy grey skies, bitter winds and days not fit for man or beast.

Autumn Leaves | The Day's Design | Kelly Sweet Photography

Photography: Kelly Sweet Photography

I’ve had a couple of goals on my mind for this autumn season and this is just the reminder I needed to push myself forward and not take this time for granted.

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The above photo was the setting for Tim & Christina’s first look, a most gorgeous autumn wedding in Northport, Michigan.  You can see the entire day here.

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Sharing Thanks

0 · Nov 26, 2014 ·

It’s Gretta’s birthday today (can you believe she’s 2 already!? Flashback to her 1st birthday here) and I’m busy making cake, wrapping a quick present and packing to head out of town for the Thanksgiving holiday but in the midst of it all I’m going to totally be cheesy and cliché here and share a few of the things I have to be thankful for.

Gretta James turns 2 | The Day's Design | Hetler Photography

No doubt this has been a year of trials and struggles, I feel like a broken record as I’ve said that about the last few years in general. There’s been loss and heartache, ups and downs and challenges for sure.  I cannot deny that life is full of struggle.  I am hardly the eternal optimist.

Never the less, I am thankful for this space where I can share little tidbits and advice, tips on wedding and life planning, creating beautiful blooms and parts of my heart.  I am thankful for you who continue to read the random thoughts that I choose to blog about.  I’m thankful that you don’t criticize and critique me too much.

I’m so thankful for all the couples who have hired me to be a part of their 2014 celebration.  I finished my last wedding of the season this past weekend (yes, I know I said that at the end of October but I snuck one more in there – more on that later!). I’m ready for a time of rest and refresh until next year which will undoubtedly be my busiest yet, it’s looking seriously fabulous and I can’t wait to celebrate with my 2015 couples!

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And I’m thankful for my family.  They’re crazy, and often annoying and pushy and intrusive and completely loving, supportive and the greatest people ever.  The definition of family is constantly changing for me as people seem to come and go out of my life.  There’s the pain of loss but on the other end, we also celebrate the joy of new life.

This joy will be celebrated again in 2015.  We’re excited to announce that our family of three will soon be four, with our newest addition set to arrive mid-March.  And we’re thankful for that.

Pregnancy Announcement | The Day's Design | Hetler Photography

So may you all be blessed and have a Happy Thanksgiving!

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Lastly, I cannot forget all the vendors who have supported my creative talents and ventures, including the incredibly talented Kellie, of Hetler Photography, who took the above photos and who has had constant faith in my abilities.  Thank you!!

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Reality Check

0 · Apr 15, 2013 ·

I had a bad day today.  Baby girl was being super fussy, I was late for a meeting with a client (which I hate, hate, hate!) and I was trying to get some work done and figure out what to blog.  On top of it all, I was working on finances, which is stressful in both my personal and business life.  I’m trying to build a business based on love, commitment and happily ever after – not an easy task when you’re having a “bad” day.

And then I was faced with a huge reality check.  The news is blasting stories about the tragedy in Boston.  Life is suddenly put back into perspective.  I am having a bad day?  I don’t think so!  I cannot imagine living through an event such as the disaster at the Boston Marathon.  What evil has overcome the world?

There are people every day that live in constant fear and uncertainty.  Victims of hurricane Sandy are still homeless, parents in Newton are still childless and those in Boston are being warned to stay away from crowds and stay indoors because who knows what will happen next.  In a flash, life was changed forever.

Meanwhile, I am nice and warm on my sofa staring at flowers and home décor ideas, wishing my Pottery Barn pillows were a different color.  What a spoiled little American I am!

While we cannot live our lives in constant fear, we also need to realize that any moment could be our last.  Snuggle with your children, your husband/significant other and don’t push those relationships away.  Don’t put things off until tomorrow.  Call your mom.  Have the lonely neighbor over for coffee.  Tell your sister that you love her.  Nurture broken relationships.  Find balance in your work and personal lives. Sign off from social media and have a real conversation with someone.   Do not take tomorrow for granted and make every moment count.

This pep talk is designed to be motivation for myself, just as much as anyone else.  Yes, I am guilty of not taking my own advice.  But stop and think, what are the moments in life that I am missing?

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Just a few Instagram moments that I am glad I did not miss this month… I have the best family!  What moments are you thankful for???

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