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Friday Flowers :: Lilacs

0 · Aug 19, 2016 ·

I don’t know if it was the change of scenery that brought about my whole new perspective on lilacs or perhaps I finally learned to open my eyes to the world around me – but either way, it seemed that the lilacs were unbelievable this year.  It seemed like every time I turned around, I saw another bush, they were lining the highways, I was coveting someone’s yard and I stayed in complete awe of these breathtaking, purple blossoms.

Local Lilacs | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

Ashley Slater contacted me toward the end of May for one of her couples looking for a bouquet for an engagement shoot.  Building a bouquet like this is one of my favorite tasks.  With a small floral order, I am able to source flowers and approach the creative process in a much different way.  I didn’t new mass quantity of flowers, just a handful of each bloom.

I instantly knew that lilacs would be my starting point.  They were at their height of perfection and I couldn’t pass them by.  The only problem was I don’t actually have a lilac bush, I just see everyone else’s as I’m driving down the road.  And unfortunately I couldn’t find anyone selling them roadside or at the farmer’s market.

I did, however find what appeared to be vacant property on a low traffic area of road that had a glorious bush.  I pulled over and helped myself. I don’t call this thievery, I consider this saving a flower from an underappreciated life.  (And if this happened to be your property, I do apologize but know that your flowers lived to their fullest potential and made one bride-to-be very happy plus I’d be really happy to pay you for the blooms).

I let these Big Rapids lilacs steal the show, keeping the rest of the flower recipe pretty simple.  I added a few Quicksand roses – which are one of my absolute favorite shades of blush and a few Little Silver spray roses.  Both rose varieties are South American grown because sometimes you just need to represent the other half of the world with your floral compositions.  A few California grown black Scabiosa were added in just a little extra depth to the bouquet.  And finally, I purchased Jacob’s Ladder plant locally, which I trimmed a few pieces from for some added texture.Local Lilac Bouquet | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

Spring Engagment Photo Session | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

Lilac Bridal Bouquet | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

The icing on the cake, however, was when I got the pictures back and realized that the photo session took them to a lilac grove and there was a blooming fuchsia tree in the background which added the most perfect shades of pink to complement Mucki’s bouquet.

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Photography: Ashley Slater Photography

I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again, don’t be afraid to add a bouquet into your engagement session.  There’s no such thing as too many flowers. And nothing brings a smile to a girl’s face like a bouquet of beautiful blooms.

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The Rose

0 · Feb 5, 2015 ·

We’ve downplayed the romance of roses.  I had yet another bride tell me that she isn’t a fan of roses.  While it’s not uncommon for me to hear, it is somewhat disheartening.  I can’t use ANY roses in your arrangements?  I think we’re sick of seeing tightly wound bunches sadly wrapped in cellophane, thrown together with a couple sprigs of baby’s breath and being advertised as something we should love.  However, when I think of all the beautiful blooms that you’re excluding, it’s somewhat heartbreaking.   There are so many great varieties beyond the typical South American blooms we associate with the word “rose” leaving so many flowers behind that we’re simply not appreciating.

I love creating with roses.  I love pulling the center petals from the little spray roses to reveal the cute little stamens hiding inside.   The way a garden rose can transform from a tight, round bud to a glorious bloom layered with ruffles and frills is really exciting.  And I want to share this with you.

Yellow Garden Roses | The Day's Design | Heather Cisler Photography

Picture: Heather Cisler Photography

The yellow rose – a symbol of friendship.  I could stay friends with these lovelies all day long.  What you see here is an American grown, buttery yellow California bloom paired with a yellow Finesse rose – which is a standard variety but they have a softer, almost ruffly texture on their outer edges making just a touch more fancy.  The butter tones accentuate those found in the ivory spray roses on the left and who can resist adding a couple of tulips and ranunculus to the mix!?

Ivory and Pink Garden Roses | The Day's Design | Kelly Sweet Photography

Picture: Kelly Sweet Photography

I created this bouquet for a bride who had her heart set on peonies.  There’s no doubt that peonies are one of my all time favorites and I’m hopeful for the day that they’re available year around… or maybe it’s the fact that they’re not that makes them so special.  Either way, I wasn’t able to accommodate my October bride’s wishes.  However, I don’t think either of us were too disappointed by the results.

I had the roses shipped in from Oregon, which made them extra special. The large ivory ones (Helga Paiget) were especially my favorites as some blooms had just a touch of pink accenting their outer petals.  And when they opened it was pure magic.  Layer upon layer of delicate petals were revealed.  They were placed next to the Romantic Antike roses (the coral-y pink ones).  Those too are extraordinary in their own way.  While closed, they are a beautifully round bud and opened, they flatten out with a swirling petal arrangement that leads to a golden center.  Also shown are a few delicately sweet Champagne roses in blush tones and some PeeGee hydrangeas with peach stock.

Carmel Antike and Red Rose | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

Picture: Ashley Slater Photography

I’m not sure what what exactly inspired this combination of roses.  The Caramel Antikes and the red garden roses (which the grower considered brown) were shipped to me from California (on a side note… I would love to source more roses from Michigan, anyone want to recommend a grower to me?) and the pale blush/beige one of the left in fact is a South American Quicksand rose.  I just threw these in a vase together with some chocolate cosmos and grabbed a couple leaves off a bush in my backyard but I loved the results!

Still think roses are boring?  If you still don’t like roses, I understand and will not force my preference upon you.  But with so many varieties, colors, sizes and design options I really think we should reconsider.

“That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” – Shakespeare

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