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Cinderella’s Proposal

0 · Aug 17, 2016 ·

My little sister just got married.  But before the merriment of “I do’s” there is a story to be told.  It’s a lovely story, a tale of two people who have fallen in love.  It’s a story of friendship and longing.  It’s story of patience and dreams that do come true.

A little birdie whispered in my ear that a certain someone was going to propose. The first step was finding the perfect ring. I found myself honored enough to assist with the jewelry shopping.  He chose a ring with the style name honored our grandmother, Margaret, and then had the design tweaked just a touch to make it fit my sister’s tastes.  It is a light blue sapphire (her birthstone) in a yellow gold setting and diamond accents.  It is stunning.

Each spring I like to put together an inspiration shoot.  It helps me to dust off my flowering skills and stir up some creative juices.  But as of late, I have found them to feel rather “empty”.  It seems like putting together these mock parties is wasteful, even frivolous.  And I was stuck looking for an idea.

The knowledge that Devin was going to propose was not new to me.  In fact, it was a secret that I had tucked away for nearly 6 months as my sister was searching for a new apartment, moving forward with her life and doing pretty much the opposite of what every newly engaged woman should be doing – all while we were off shopping for the perfect jewel.  But I kept quiet, my lips were sealed.  As I was mulling all of these things over and helping my soon to be brother-in-law brainstorm an amazing proposal, the idea struck me that we could combine both my inspiration shoot (which I had no ideas for) and his proposal (which he was also trying to make extremely memorable).

One of my sister’s all time favorite movies is the 1965 version of Roger & Hammerstien’s Cinderella –  and if you’re not familiar with that version, stop reading this and go watch it. It’s simply the best version of Cinderella known to man.  He had taken her to see a live version for her birthday, they had watched the movie together and it seemed like a very appropriate source of inspiration.

Under the guise of a small inspiration shoot, I asked my sister to model for me and proceeded to get her all dolled up.  She had a pampering salon day at Cheeky Strut, she picked out a beautiful gown at Spring Sweet and we made her feel like a princess, she needed a real life Cinderella moment. Now if only she had a pair of shoes…

Spring Sweet’s store closed and we made Justine walk down to the main store level to find her shoes.  The trip just so happened to take her down a beautiful wooden staircase which Spring and I adorned with blooming branches and greens.  On the treads of each step were gold calligraphy letter from Lief Design spelling out Will You Marry Me? “10 Minutes Ago” from Roger’s and Hammerstien’s Cinderella started playing.  And at the bottom of the stairs stood Prince Charming, holding her shoes and an engagement ring.

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Photography: Samantha James Photography | Concept & Design: The Day’s Design | Floral Design (a collaboration): Spring Sweet & The Day’s Design | Location: Spring Sweet Holland, Michigan | Bridal Attire & Accessories: Spring Sweet Bridal | Calligraphy: Lief Design | Hair: Hillary of Cheeky Strut Salon | Makeup: Rachel of Cheeky Strut Salon | Cinderella Blue Ribbon: Silk & Willow | Ring Box: The Mrs. Box | Ring: Penellibelle | Videography: Katie Grace Photography & Videography

And don’t miss the video which I shared a couple weeks ago.  Their proposal story was also featured on The Wedding Chicks last month.  I can’t wait to share pictures from the wedding!

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Seasons of Love

0 · Jun 27, 2016 ·

This past week, I co-hosted a bridal shower for my younger sister.  I am ridiculously excited for her wedding and so happy for her.  However, this post isn’t really about her.  Rather, it’s about something that was said during her shower that particularly struck me.

Whenever my family hosts a shower, we always include a small devotion.  This shower was no exception and we asked a member of her church to share a few words.  She started talking about fairytales (you may have seen a few sneaks of my sister’s Cinderella inspired proposal so this message was spot on) and then she spoke about the different seasons of love.Seasons of Love | Marriage Proposal | The Day's Design | Bradley James Photography

Photography: Bradley James Photography

Anyone who is married can tell you that those butterflies and pangs of longing and excitement don’t last forever.  Happily ever after is something that you have to work at.  Love has different seasons and is constantly evolving.

As she spoke, I began to wonder what it would be like to hold onto that so fresh in love feeling forever.  I starting thinking about how miserable life might actually be if my gut was tormented eternally every time we were separated for 2 hours or if he didn’t return my call.

And then another memory came flashing back into my mind.  My first love.  I was sixteen years old and he was my everything. His mother, on the other hand, has some prude-like tendencies.  I remember one night sitting and watching Groundhog Day with his entire family.  Remember at the end when Bill Murray finally makes it through the night and it’s a different day in the morning?  And Andie MacDowell is still there.  In bed. With him. And then they kiss.  And my boyfriend’s mother said “ugh, like anyone would kiss with morning breath”.

As a sixteen year old who was madly in love with her first boyfriend, I was appalled by this comment.  Who cares?!  I would have given anything to give my boy a kiss first thing in the morning.  I could only dream about a time when this would be a real possibility.  Thoughts of love, marriage and all sorts of romantic notions flooded my hormone infused teenage mind.  My heart nearly broke every time I had to tell my boyfriend good bye.

Fast forward 15 years, 6 of which I have been married, and suddenly I can see where she was coming from.  It’s certainly not because I don’t love my husband, but I prefer a little minty freshness in the morning.  I’m in a different season of life, of love.

We need to cherish the season we’re in.  If you’re newly engaged, this is your time to savor the feeling of novel love.  The tingles and exhilaration will vanish overtime, but that doesn’t mean that either one of you have “fallen out of love” but instead, it has evolved into something new.  Newfound emotions and levels of understand and commitment are just around the corner.

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From the Heart of a Planner Bradley James Photography, bridal shower, engagment photos, proposal, seasons of love, the day's design

A Lakeside Proposal

0 · Feb 1, 2016 ·

February 1st.  This time of year is grey, speckled with storms of white and cabin fever has officially set in.  I want to go outside and play.  The wonder of the holidays is long gone and the newness of January has faded away.  The only glimmer of celebration yet to behold is the fact that engagement season isn’t completely behind us, the next couple of weeks will wrap up the wave of romantic questions and as Valentine’s day is actually on a weekend this year which I think will increase the number of diamonds purchased and over the top proposals.

In early autumn, I put together a little engagement story of my own.  I thought about where I would do it, how I would want it captured and of course what I would be wearing if I were the one asking that most important question.  Wedding Paper Divas asked that we include a few of their save the dates and invitations in the storyline and sometimes something so simple can really bring the rest of the details together.

So as the days grew shorter, the autumn air greeted us with a crisp refreshment and the world began to take on a golden brown hue.  We welcomed September rains, velvet touches and evenings illuminated by candlelight.  With mixed metallics and touches of grey blue, we imagined a lakeside story filled with sequins and wheat grass, where rustic meets elegance and love was surely to thrive. The perfect place to start to the journey to “I do”. Photography: Bradley James Photography | Event & Floral Design: The Day’s Design | Venue: Clifford Lake Inn  |  Invitations/Save the Dates: Wedding Paper Divas |  Calligraphy: Lief Designs  |  Ring box: Lumbertacks  |  Dress: Adrianna Papell |  Cake: Pastry Chef Dana Lucas of Clifford Lake Inn

Olivia and Carter are just the dreamiest couple.  While this was staged and not the actual moment he proposed, they did recently get engaged and I get to help floralize their real wedding this summer.  Olivia will be a stunning bride!

If you’re seeking inspiration for an amazing proposal (or helping to point your beau in the right direction) you can always suggest that he doesn’t have to go it alone.  Perhaps hire a photographer, get in touch with a wedding planner or guide him towards wedding professionals who won’t take over the creative process, but rather enhance it and help make the moment even more memorable.

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The shoot was also featured on Ruffle Blog back in December.

Celebrations Adrianna Papell, autumn weddings, blush flowers, Bradley James Photography, Clifford Lake Inn, fireplace mantel, Lief design, Lumbertacks, proposal, Ruffled Blog, sequin dress, Wedding Paper Divas

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