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Real Weddings :: Ryan & Jessica’s Equestrian Celebration

1 · Feb 21, 2018 ·

Country weddings can be low key and elegant, simple, rustic and still beautiful all at once.  Bright white spaces can be filled with color and smelly old horse barns can make the most stunny reception venues.  This wedding proves all of that.

Jessica has freelanced with me for the past 3 wedding seasons, and last year it was her turn.  She chose to get married in March, which made me so happy because late winter and early spring are amazing times for flowers.  Obviously we weren’t utilizing many local options but the Japanese and speciality flower markets are out of this world.  The ranunculus in her bouquets, where nearly as large as peonies.

Her family owns a horse farm and spent the months leading up to Jessica and Ryan’s nuptials renovating the upper level, white washing the walls and making over the space to be the most perfect “at home” wedding possible.  Jewel tones and greenery popped against the muted canvas and soft shades of smokey blue were the perfect accent.  Plus we can’t forget about the church, which was filled with more flowers than I’ve ever put in one santuary before – and I want to recreate this scene again and again.

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Photography: Katie Grace Photography & Videography | Ceremony & Personal Floral Design: The Day’s Design | Ceremony Venue: Central Avenue Christian Reformed Church in Holland, Michigan | Reception Venue: Rusty Spurs Equestrian Center | Invitations: The Woolberry Press | Cake: Pastry Chef Dana Wilmer Lucas

I also wanted to note, because Jessica is so fabulous, she designed the entire space herself as well as tackled arranging all of her own centerpieces.  I simply jumped in for a little designing consult and to tackled the ceremony florals and the personal arrangements… plus hauling all of the ceremony arrangments to the reception site to repurpose (which was not an easy task!)

Congratulations on almost 1 year of marriage!  I wish you both all the love and happiness.

 

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When Should You Carry Your Bridal Bouquet?

3 · Nov 15, 2016 ·

It seems like a pretty straight forward question and answer.  As a bride, you have a bouquet and as a floral designer, I’m going to encourage you to have flowers around you as often as possible.  But even with something as simple as a bridal bouquet, there are logistics and moments of practicality to consider and moments that you might truly want to have it by your side, even if you hadn’t previously thought about it.

When to Carry Your Bridlal Bouqet | The Day's Design | Bradley James Photography

Photography: Samantha James Photography

Getting Ready Photos

I like to drop off the bouquets sometime during the getting ready process rather than having the bouquets waiting at the ceremony location.  I do this for a couple of reasons.  First off, many photographers like to photograph the bouquet right away, along with the other accessories.  So many of the photographers I work with start the day off with “detail shots” – meaning photographing the bride’s jewelry, veil, shoes and dress before she puts it on.  The bouquet normally falls into this category and also adds some extra charm into these pictures.  Secondly, bridal party pictures with maids in matching robes and fun styled photos like this have gained so much popularity in recent years and often bouquets are also incorporated in as well.  And thirdly, if you’re doing a first look, sometimes locations have been known to change last minute due to weather or lighting or perhaps even running behind schedule.  Having your bouquet there and ready for you makes one less detail that needs to be re-coordinated if there should be a timeline modification.

First Look

I am a huge advocate for having flowers with the bride for this moment.  And I know not everyone agrees with me on this issue, but so much time, care and money spent on choosing the perfect blooms (or floral designer to choose the perfect flowers) and this is a highly photographed time so I think it’s only right that said blooms should be treasured and held in the bride’s hands. Furthermore, immediately following the first look is usually a small photo session of just the two of you and I really believe you’ll want your flowers accessible for this.

Wedding Party Pictures

Again, this seems obvious but the bride and her maids should have handfuls of blooms readily available for when their time in front of the camera arrives.  A couple of helpful hints with this – make sure vases of water are kept nearby and certainly make sure the entire bridal party is aware of all the happenings of the day so they’ll know to keep their bouquets handy for the most important moments of the day.  One of the most common questions I hear from the bridesmaids on a wedding day is whether or not they need their bouquet at any particular time and it can be challenging to communicate this especially with larger wedding parties.

The Ceremony

Smack me on the forehead and say “duh!” right now, because we all know the bride carries a bouquet during the wedding ceremony.  But the reason I bring this up is because often with modern timelines of the day (i.e. – doing first look and all bridal party pictures prior to the actual wedding), this becomes one of the last opportunities for the bouquet to be photographed however most brides find it the most important and they’re fearful that it will be wilted from all the activity earlier in the day.  In all honesty, this time isn’t normally about photographing flowers, and your guests notice your bouquet but don’t dwell on it.  This is the time to capture emotion and focus on the sanctity of marriage.  This is the time for you and your groom to shine, accessorized by the décor but not overshadowed by it.

Sunset Photos

Yes yes yes!  Of course you need to see your flowers shining in that glorious golden light.  But if you’re thinking you’re just over carrying the bouquet around all day, I encourage you to take it along anyway.  You don’t have to hold it for every single picture, but I think you’ll be glad that you have it within reach for at least a few.

If all of the above holds true, you’ve just held your bouquet out of water for nearly 4 hours or more on what might be a really hot day.  Here are a couple of extra tips for you to make sure that your flowers stay at the peak of perfection for as long as possible.

  1. Keep a vase of water nearby, for both you and your maids. Replace the flowers into the vases whenever you have a break from photos – touching up makeup, groomsmen photos, etc. Do not just ditch the bouquets on a nearby table and do try to find a shady spot.
  2. To help with that first tip – have each bridesmaid carry her own vase of water (which I’m sure it was delivered in) or if possible, designated one person to carry the entire box or basket of vases (I always deliver mine in a basket with easy carry handles). Transport that box/basket with you from getting ready location to photos to ceremony. This is a great job for that extra person who really wanted to be involved with your wedding but you just couldn’t find the perfect task for.
  3. Appreciate the beauty while it lasts. Many of my favorite flowers actually shine the brightest in the moments before death. They open the fullest, find the perfect drape and shout romance.  Embrace the fact that your bouquet will not look exactly the same at the end of the night as it did upon delivery.  And that’s okay, it’s just the beauty of nature.

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Wedding Planning Services

0 · Jan 8, 2016 ·

Wedding Planner Services | Job Description | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

Photography: Ashley Slater Photography

Somewhere between pretentious corporate event planner and “I planned my sister’s wedding so now I’m an event planner” – on the side, is where you’ll find me… with a bouquet of flowers in my hands. I am a small business owner and boutique wedding planner, specializing in one of kind celebrations. I have a degree in event planning – or as close as I could get (Bachelors of Science in Hospitality and Tourism Management with an emphasis is Event Planning – yes, that’s a mouthful).  I plan, design and floralize weddings for a living.

However for me, business isn’t really about the title, it’s about being able to do what I love. While The Day’s Design didn’t necessarily start with flowers, it was born out of my love for design. Pulling together all the individual details for a wedding and forming one cohesive event makes me so happy. I love finding the perfect napkin that matches your invitation that pairs perfectly with your bridesmaids dress.

FLORAL DESIGN

But often the element that speaks loudest in that design scheme is the flowers and since I am so passionate about this aspect too, they naturally became part of my service offerings. They are a tangible component that everyone can see. The floral selection for any event says a lot about a person and the impact is huge. This is what draws most people to my work. And then we bond because they fancy blooms almost as much as I do.

I can’t seem to quench this thirst for floral knowledge. Colors, varieties and bouquet shapes fill my imagination…

WEDDING DESIGN

At times, the conversation ends with flowers, but more often it continues on, circling back to that design discussion and dreaming of all the decorative possibilities from escort card displays to making sure each place setting is arranged with a perfectly graceful ribbon draped on top. My sketch pad is full of doodles from blooms, to ribbons to invitations and the possibilities are endless. My creative mind is always on a wild quest for more. We’ll fashion an entire mood board and sketch out designs for the day. Together, we’ll visualize all the various details, big or small, and the roles they play in the overall tone of your wedding. If you hire me to design your wedding, I’ll be a part of every aesthetic facet working with your other creative vendors and then onsite that morning making sure that everything is perfectly placed and spotless. I may even help your photographer style a few photos if our paths should happen to cross and your timeline allows.

EVENT MANAGEMENT/DAY OF COORDINATION

Since I am there anyway, event management becomes a natural step for me to take. It’s a little more work for me on the front end of things (with a stellar team of assistants in tow), but so worth it to any bride who is considering whether or not to do everything herself. I’ll help build the entire itinerary for the day, making sure there’s a planned arrival time for each and every vendor. You won’t have to worry about whether or not the cake was delivered or the linens are set on your tables in time for the caterer to begin their part. The bridal party will know where they’re supposed to be and when to start walking down the aisle and I’ll straighten out your train before your grand entrance. Concerns about whether the photographer is in the room when the best man makes his toast or when husband and wife dance for the first time are eliminated as it will all be scheduled and well thought out, flowing as if it were all just naturally meant to happen.

FULL SERVICE WEDDING PLANNING

Then there’s the bride that needs help from the very beginning. The number of inspiring vendors in her area seems daunting and the idea of figuring out a budget is tedious. I become the friend that’s planned a million weddings and a liaison between practical, glam, organic and what your mother wants. I’m the voice of reason and inspiration, guiding the couple through each step of the planning process. Our journey together may begin with a location, a venue, finding the perfect caterer, tasting cakes or drinking champagne after he first proposed. Having a wedding planner doesn’t mean that you lose out on planning your wedding, but rather you have an experienced hand helping you along the way and any dull tasks that you don’t want to do, you can have someone else take care of.  Everything stays orderly, on schedule and remains fun, after all wedding planning is supposed to be fun.  It’s a celebration!

Regardless of contracted services, each couple is special to me. Each event is one of a kind and deserves its own contemplation and creativity. Being engaged is a once in a lifetime experience and I want to make it the very best for you. But most importantly, I wish all of my clients a marriage far more beautiful than any wedding I could ever help to create.

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The Sand & the Sea

0 · Dec 16, 2015 ·

December’s weather here in Michigan has been a little abnormal, to say the least. The amount of foggy and rain filled days have been unheard of and I’ve hardly had the need to put on my winter coat. This morning, once again, I woke up to a thick of cloud that hung in the air. It’s such a dense and gloomy feeling.

It actually made me think back to this day in May. The temperatures were oddly similar although this spring day was far windier. Ashley Slater and I had been dreaming up a beach shoot. We wanted it to be natural, ethereal and chic all at the same time. We wanted to combine a classic black tux and a streamline wedding gown with driftwood and  other neutral touches found on Lake Michigan’s glistening shoreline. We dreamt of a very sun kissed, yet earthy and grounded day with the decor seeming as though it had been washed ashore from a shipwreck.

However, as it so often happens, the weather changed our plans. One of the biggest lessons I have learned it to just roll with it and let the story be a part of your day. Since this was a styled shoot, we had the option to reschedule when the weather was chilly and less than ideal. But we moved forward despite the misty and fog. And one of my favorite outcomes of the day was the moody tone that the beach set. The sky mirrored the muted watercolor lines of Wildfield Paper’s custom paper goodies. The whitecaps and the wind whipping through Caitlin’s hair were perfection. We decided not to fuss with curls, a tie and other formalities. It turned into a wild, barefoot and carefree celebration.

Beach Wedding Invitation | The Day's Design | Wildfield Paper Co | Ashley Slater Photography

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Photography: Ashley Slater Photography  | Planning, Event & Floral Design: The Day’s Design |  Rentals: Events by ICandy  | Paper Suite:  Wildfield Paper Co  |  Dress: Spring Sweet  | Bride’s Hairpiece:  Frilly Bits Custom | Cake Styling: Chef Josh Ferguson  | Film Developing: Indie Film Lab

This shoot was also featured on Magnolia Rouge, you can see the post here.

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Real Weddings :: Tina & Chris

0 · Nov 4, 2015 ·

It’s now the time of year when I’m wrapping up wedding season, summer days have gone by and I’ve started to embrace that cozy late autumn (and even Christmas!!) mindset.  My flipflops have been traded for tall boots and my t-shirts have all been tucked away.  At the same time, I’m chatting with brides who are gleefully planning next years weddings and I have to revert back to that springtime frame of mind.  I’m starting to look for inspiration but my world – craft and decor stores, wedding blogs, Pinterest – is filled with autumn foliage and donuts (not that I mind a good donut!)

So I’m going to pretend that I’m posting this pretty spring day in hopes of inspiring one of next May’s lucky brides.  If nothing else, I’m always happy to reminisce about foxglove and peonies.

Spring Wedding | The Day's Design | Kelly Sweet Photography

Tina and Chris were married at Witt’s Inn in Lowell.  It was my first time visiting this charming little barn and beautiful gardens.  It’s rustic and what one might picture when they think of a barn wedding, until you look up.  Chandeliers.  Beautiful rows of chandeliers.  That sparkle goes straight to a girl’s heart.

Speaking of a girl after my own heart, Tina hired me to take charge of her floral decor and dropped off 65 mismatched gold, brass and copper vessels for me to fill with blooms of my choice – just somewhere in the blush, pink or coral color story.  It was so much fun sorting through each vessel, finding the perfect table mates and making each arrangement completely unique.

So I filled my floral buckets with tulips, roses, ranunculus, lilies, foxglove, peonies, clematis and wild honeysuckle.  I foraged a few greens and added some delicate silk ribbons.  The way they paired with the soft blush underlay of Tina’s dress was perfection.   And everywhere you looked, there was a different bloom, a different arrangement and the prettiest all greenery bridesmaids bouquets.

Dear Tina and Chris, I hope you two have loved your first season together and have many more full of happiness to come.

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Photography: Kelly Sweet Photography | Second Photographer: Amy Hartman | Floral Design: The Day’s Design | Venue: Witt’s Inn, Lowell | Catering: Kangaroo Kitchen & Catering | Wedding Dress: Allure Bridals | Hair & Makeup: Pomp & Artistry | Vintage Furniture/Decor: Fancy Fray

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FAQ :: Do You Have a Website?

0 · Dec 3, 2014 ·

It seems like everyone and their brother knows something about wedding planning these days.  There’s a list of people a mile long claiming to coordinate weddings and have similar such hobbies.  But for some people, it’s just that – a hobby.

There’s nothing wrong with this hobby.  In fact, planning and decorating is something many people enjoy and many people are good at.  However, it’s not something that all people can make a living doing.  And it’s often because of these “hobbyist” that I’m not taken seriously as a professional.

Spray Roses | The Day's Design | Hetler Photography

Photography: Hetler Photography

What I would love for you to understand is the level of skill and business savvy it takes beyond being able to make a pretty centerpiece and find coordinating linens.

It takes ownership and pride.  You have to lay claim to your work and own up to how you make a living.  There was once a point where I would kind of mumble something about coordinating a few weddings when someone asked what I did.  Now I scream it loud and proud.  This is who I am, this is what I do.

It involves being business minded.  I hate having to sell myself and my services.  But unfortunately people don’t usually book you without any prior knowledge or at least being made aware how you can help them and why the need you.

It takes a commitment to staying in business, even when times are tough.  It’s not all ruffles and roses over here.  Some months are slow, but I still have to pay for my website, advertising and general business needs.  I must be willing to take it all in stride and push forward.  I can’t simply give up but rather push myself to be a little better every day.

So commonly I’m asked if I have a website.  I think this is a significant sign of seriousness.  Facebook pages are awesome because they’re free and they can be easily updated, but they lack a certain level of commitment.  People look at you differently when you can hand them a business card and web address.  And once they see my website, I’m knocked out of the hobbyist category for good.  So making it a good website really counts.

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Wild & Free

0 · Jun 23, 2014 ·

Over the weekend I read the quote “All good things are wild and free” – Henry David Thoreau.

I can’t get it out of my head.

I don’t know the original context or what point he was trying to make when he said those words, but I do have this feeling of home when I read it.  I feel like it’s somehow belongs with me and holds a liberating truth.

When I think about how I want my life to be, the words contained, ordinary and tame do not come to mind.  Not in the least bit.  But rather I have this imagery of myself running barefoot through an open field of wild flowers a warm breeze running through my hair.  Wild and free.

I think of the majestic lioness on the prowl through the safari of African, graceful and strong.  She’s stalking her prey, caring for her young and soaking up the hot summer sun. Wild and free.

I think of a lush, hand picked bouquet.  Each flower allowed to shine with it’s own grace, evoking a feeling reminiscent of the garden where it once belonged.  Draping greenery, curled stems and delicate petals all speak with their own voice bringing the bouquet to life, not forced to conform into a tight arrangement but able to dance in the fresh air.  Wild and free.

Wild & Free | The Day's Design | Hetler Photography

Doesn’t that just seem like the way life should be?

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Above is my Baby Bean — barefoot and free 🙂 By Hetler Photography.

 

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Rest

0 · May 22, 2014 ·

Yesterday I returned home from Philosophy Flowers workshop.  First off, let me just say that Kelly Perry herself  is an absolutely enchanting and sweet soul with a huge passion and fabulous eye for floral.  Secondly, each and every other girl I met while there was just as delightful.  I was truly in flower heaven sitting with my flower friends in the mountains of Boone, NC.

One of the common themes that kept repeating itself throughout the workshop was the idea of rest.  While this workshop did truly feel like more of a vacation than “work” – I would not necessarily say it was restful.  Truth be told, I was exhausted by the end of my trip – and getting up at 3:30 in the morning to travel home didn’t exactly help that!

But when I finally made it home, I saw my world in a whole new light.  Stepping away from the everyday enabled me to be filled with new wonder upon my return.  Yesterday I took a walk and I simply saw things differently.  I fell in love with flowers even deeper while away and that new light and appreciation followed me home.  I stopped and picked some branches and blooms up along my walk.  I paid attention to the very subtle color variations and imagined all new flower combinations.

Rest is good for the soul.  Working too hard will just wear you out and make you weary.  We weren’t put on this earth to be run down, but rather to embrace new friendships, to worship and rejoice.

Orchard Family Pictures | The Day's Design | Hetler Photography

Enjoy your Memorial Day and get some rest friends, I’m going to spend it with my little family {pictured above by Hetler Photography}!!

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Flowers are Coming to The Day’s Design!!

0 · Apr 30, 2014 ·

I am so grateful and beyond excited for the opportunity to follow my PASSION for flowers and offer romantic, garden style blooms to my design services.  This May, my travels will take me to North Carolina to attend Philosophy Flowers’s workshop where I hope to hone some of my floral skills.  Flowers make me feel alive and I want to be surrounded by them as often as possible.

Philosophy Flower Workshop

Flowers and design go hand in hand, so this seems like a natural step for me to take.  It’s becoming a rather requested service of me.  And you’ve no doubt seen my floral work throughout my website, in inspirations shoots and even at my own wedding.  In fact, you may have thought this was a service I already offered, which it is, but on a very small scale.  Putting together a few blooms for a birthday party, brunch or simply brighten someone’s day is a little different than creating a design with hundreds of flowers, moving pieces, aisle décor and centerpieces for a wedding.

So when it comes down to it, fear has held me back and I’ve been scared to book a whole wedding’s worth of floral.  There are so many more details to consider than just hand-tying a few blooms together.  And what if I fail?  This is someone’s dream day that I would be crushing!

In light of this, right now my basement is being reworked, plans are being plotted and floral recipes are being created.  If all goes well, full on large scale floral services will be officially be added to The Day’s Designs offerings soon… like really soon, I’m talking to brides about blooms this summer and fall!  Eeekk… I’m so excited to actually be typing those words!

What does it mean for you, my current and future bridal clients?  It means that you will have yet another resource for beautiful blooms.  It means that the person designing and coordinating logistics with also be hands-on with florals and ideas can easily come from one person and one place, without having to communicate your vision over and over again to countless vendors.  It also means one less vendor to worry about on your wedding day.  However, you by no means HAVE to use my floral services.  I know there are so many amazing florists out there, and if one of them strikes your fancy, I highly encourage you to work with them.  No hard feelings, I want your day to represent you and make your vision come to life.  I will also be taking on a limited number of floral only clients, so bring on the flower love!

I can’t wait to share more about my adventures of adding blooms!

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What is True Will Last

0 · Apr 14, 2014 ·

Vintage Inpired Wedding | Success | The Day's Design | Hetler Photography

The definition of success has been on my mind a lot lately.  And to be honest, there are days I don’t feel very successful.  There are days that I struggle, need all the pep talks in the world and still can’t find my motivation because it seems like I might never be successful.  The future does not always look sunny and bright.

But then I have to check myself because I’m basing my definition of success on worldly things.  Money does not equal success.  I think happiness is a much truer measuring stick.  Yes, there is some correlation between the two.  While money might not buy happiness, it definitely can make life a lot less stressful, and if my life were less stressful I’d call that a success!

At the age of 22, I had already had many bumps in my road.  I remember one day meeting with an old friend.  I believe his intentions were good as he was sharing with me about his new business venture and his success and all the money he was making.  I remember being wowed.   And then I felt small and lost my confidence.  I know this was not his intent, he wanted to inspire me.  But I felt like I wasn’t enough.

So I turned to writing, which has been a long time practice of mine whenever I’ve felt troubled or at a loss.  I remember writing these words like it was yesterday (although I can’t find where I actually wrote them).  Am I successful?  I have loved, I have lost.  I’ve been to the bottom and made my way back up again.  And at times I might still stumble but I’m still standing.  So am I successful?  Damn straight I am.

I think back to that point often, not to relive the past but to learn from it.  I counted myself as successful even thought I was a single girl living in a crappy apartment working her way through school.  But it was MY apartment and I paid my own bills and created my own life.  I was a confident, 22 year old woman with some ugly in her pasts but a whole word of hope in front of her.  And what is true will last (thanks for that little quote Katie!)  So think of yourself as successful and you will be.  Stay true and find your path.  And never let anyone tell you that you aren’t enough.  Only you can make your dreams come true.  You hold the key to your own success.

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Flower make me happy.  And happiness and love define success in my book.  Thanks Hetler Photography for capturing both above.

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Planning Your Dreams

0 · Apr 7, 2014 ·

Gold, Aqua and Pink bouquet | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

When I gave my business a name back in fall of 2011, I had this ridiculous notion that by somehow having a name and business cards, people would begin to take me seriously and business would just come to my doorstep.  Ha… what was I thinking???

Fast forward 3 years now and I have such a greater understanding of business, life and dreams and how they’re all intertwined.  Summer of 2012 was when I really began to put myself out there and make this dream my career and by fall 2012 it became abundantly clear that if I wanted to really make this work, I could no longer also work a full time job.  Leap of faith = quit my full time job.

Now all of this is fine and dandy, I had a plan – a real life business plan, I had goals and a little bit of a path cleared out to make it happen.  I even had a 5 year dream in place of where I’d really like my business to be.

However, if you never change anything, you’ll never grow and make these dreams a reality.  It’s great to have a plan, but you also have to follow that plan.  This is where I am now.  I’m sitting here telling myself that eventually “this” is how I’d like my business to be.  And eventually I’d like to add such-and-such additional services. It’s been over a year since I’ve been voicing thoughts and ideas out loud with no action to move forward. If I keep doing exactly what I’m doing right now, these ideas will never happen.  Umm… reality check please!

Same rules apply for so many aspects of life.  In your job, in your relationships and where you want life to take you.  Sure there are unexpected bumps along the way, but if you never change anything in your present, how can you just expect that the future will be brighter?  You have to work for something bigger.  Set goals and accomplish things.

So it’s Monday and time for a fresh start.  I’m pushing forward and going to MAKE my dreams come true!  What are you doing today?

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And the gorgeous blooms above were put together by yours truly and photographed by Ashley Slater Photography, thanks love!!

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DIY Gilded Floral Crown

0 · Apr 1, 2014 ·

Yesterday was the warmest day we’ve seen so far this year and it was as if the whole world simply came bursting back to life.  Neighbors were in the streets, yards were being raked and the snow mounds bordering my lawn shrunk to the point that I can now see the tops of cars passing by my house.  And guess what I found buried underneath some of that snow?  Life!  There, braving the ice and cold, are the little tips of my spring bulbs waiting for their time to bloom.

I’m eagerly awaiting that moment too.  But until then, I thought I’d share a little bit of flowery goodness with you today and how you can create it yourself.  I’m simply loving the floral crown trend right now and this one is especially glam with gilded gold leaves.

So here’s what you need:

Grapevine wire  |  Floral wire  |  Wire cutters  |  Floral tape  |  Flowers*  |  Greens*

*I used one stem of pink lisianthus (which had two flowers) and a cream garden rose.  For greens I used mini coin as my base and filled in with silver dollar eucalyptus – but the options are limitless, use what inspires you!

Floral Crown Supplies | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

Step 1:  Spray paint your greens.  You can completely coat them or let a little green show.  I like to leave a little nature shining through.

Gold Gilded Floral Crown | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

Step 2:   Form a circular base with the grapevine wire.  The form should be slightly larger than your head as once the greens are attached the fit will be more snug.

Floral Crown DIY | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

Step 3:  Once the paint has dried, clip the long stems so only an inch or so remain, along with the leafy, pretty part of the plant.

DIY Gilded Floral Crown | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

Step 4: Using floral tape, wrap the stem of the greens and attach it to the grapevine wire. Continue to attach stems to the grapevine wire, leaving the other end of the greens free until you have created a full circle of greens.

Gilded Floral Crown tutorial | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

DIY Gilded Floral Crown | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

Step 5: Begin filling in the larger leaves, taping them to the grapevine wire.  The larger leaves (eucalyptus) are optional, but I like the extra texture they add.

Gilded Floral Crown Tutorial | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

Step 6: With the small pieces of floral wire, attach the loose ends of the leaves to the crown so it creates a full and lovely circle.  How tightly you attach the greens is up to you, a looser greens with create a more wild and relaxed look.

At this point you might choose to add an additional layer of gold paint which would help to camouflage any floral tape and wire.

Gilded Floral Crown tutorial | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

Step 7:  Trim the stems and add flowers.  I chose to place them off to the side, but the options are limitless.  To add them – pierce the base of the bloom with the floral wire and then twist and attach to the crown.

Gilded Floral Crown DIY | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

Floral Crown DIY | The Day's Deisgn | Ashley Slater Photography

Step 8: Wear your gold crown pretty lady!

Garden Rose Floral Crown | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

DIY Floral Crown | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater PhotographyDIY Gold Floral Crown | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

All photos by the fabulous Ashley Slater Photography, thanks love!

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Bloom

0 · Mar 27, 2014 ·

One morning I woke up to a completely out of the blue email from dear Ashley, of Ashley Slater Photography.  She wanted to work with me sometime.  Me?  Yes, me!  A friendship quickly blossomed between the two of us as we realized our similar interests – weddings, Disney movies, babies and God – it was as if we were destine to become friends.

The amount of friendships that have blossomed in similar such manor since I have taken the plunge into the wedding industry has quite remarkable.  In fact, it has been one of my favorite yet most unexpected parts of this journey.

Have you ever read someone’s online profile and just know the two of you would be friends?  It happens, almost like in internet dating. Almost.

When Ashley told me about this workshop that she was dreaming up, her excitement was absolutely contagious.  And then she told me that she was partnered with Michaela and I just knew something fabulous was in the works and I needed to be a part!  I haven’t met this California girl yet, but I’m certain our virtual friendship will become something more when I see her face in June.

Gold & Pink flowers | The Day's Design | Ashley Slater Photography

Bloom | The Workshop is the dream turned reality coming to West Michigan.  And while the only credit I can take is adding some pretty petals to their website, I’m so excited for these ladies and I cannot wait for them to share their creative talents and business strategies with all of you.   Yes, you! You – the attendees that I have not met yet, but will see more of my flowers throughout that day.  You – sitting there thinking you wish you knew how to photograph and style some gorgeous content for your blog. You – the one who’s thinking they might actually take the plunge and start a blog or another completely awesome creative business. Or you – you who needs a big hug and a team of creatives to lean on as your journey through life.

Registration opened TODAY… go grab a seat!  Or read a little more from the geniuses behind the workshop, Ashley and Michaela.

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